First prepare yourself:

If you want an older woman to look at you as a mate, and not simply because she’s wondering why the hell you’re staring, prepare in advance and make yourself more attractive. Cougars like to keep in shape and dress to impress, so you really need to do the same. Take out a gym membership, go shopping in some expensive places, choose a sexy scent and not just whatever’s on sale at a petrol station. Remember: you’ve got one chance to make a first impression, so make sure it lasts – for the right reasons.

Then start your hunt:

You won’t find an older woman downing vod-bulls at your local disco. Likewise it’s pretty unusual for a cougar to join Tinder (though not impossible). Once you’re ready to meet a hot older woman, know where to look for her. Ask around (or Google around if you’re more of a private type) and find out where your local cougar bars are. Or you can make this whole process a lot easier by joining a Cougar Dating Site.

Go in and make your move:

When you’ve spotted a sexy cougar and you know she’s the one who will make your dating life what you’ve always dream of, show her you’re interested but make sure you do it in the right way. This is a good time to have a few intelligent points of conversation ready, think politics, women’s issues, anything except a horrible pick-up line that she will have heard a million times before. Show confidence, be a gentleman and be ready to sweep her off her feet from the very beginning.

But don’t forget: Once she’s interested in you, you need to keep up the effort and be in your best behavior otherwise you won’t keep her attention for long. But if you do get it right, this might just be the start of your sexiest adventure yet.

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1. Expectation: Cougar dating will pay for my lifestyle
   Reality: Dating a cougar is a great way to enjoy your life with better companionship but you need to think about what you’re bring them, not what they can do for you.
2. Expectation: Cougars are red hot

Reality: Older women that date younger men are often more attractive, that’s because they know what they want and they know how to get it.

3. Expectation: A cougar relationship will only last a short time

Reality: Dating a cougar will last as long as your desires. Could it end? Sure. But many cougar and toyboy couples marry and make a family.

4. Expectation: Toyboy and cougar relationships are all about sex

Reality: You should expect increased passion from your cougar relationship but older women will match you and surpass you on more levels than you can imagine.

So what do you think? Are you ready for it? Start your sexiest adventure yet…

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1. Always take cougars to a posh restaurant (and I mean posh!)

   Nando’s, Pizza Express, Burger King, these places all may have seemed like perfectly acceptable venues when you were dating a young female, but believe me they won’t cut the mustard with a sexy, mature woman. Read some reviews, ask friends where they go for really special occasions and prepare your wallet – you need to work for this.

2.  Learn a new skill together

   Find an exciting class that can teach you both something new and sexy. Think cocktail lessons, chocolate or sushi making classes. Show the cougar who takes your interest that you’re capable of taking care of her by making her something. This will also show you how well you work as a team and gives you a good chance to enjoy getting a little mucky together.

3. Go exploring

   The whole reason cougars love younger men is because they’re far from ready to stay in and have a quiet night, they want to have fun! So don’t be afraid to get outside together and go somewhere that will really get your adrenaline pumping. Think sky-diving, orbing, snow-boarding, there’s so much fun to be had on your cougar date.

4. Take a stroll in the park (with furry friends)

   If you want a good test of your chemistry fast, try taking a pet out for a walk in the park. That way you can really see how well you look after something together. If you have your own pets, this is a really great opportunity to see how your crush gets on with the other important friend in your life. If not, borrow one and get walking!

5. Go dancing

   Everyone knows the seductive power of dancing, no one better than the sexy older cougar. You may need to practice first because chances are this woman knows her way around her own body. Choose a classy venue, with a great dance-floor, a beat you can get moving to and watch time fly by.

6. Expand your horizons

   Now wouldn’t this picture be even better with a hot older woman in it?

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